SANCTUARY

RELATIONSHIPS ARE A SANCTUARY WHERE YOU CAN BE VULNERABLE, AND INTIMATE. THE MOST IMPORTANT RELATIONSHIP IS WITH YOURSELF.WHEN PEOPLE CRITIQUE YOU RECOGNIZE THE SOURCE, AND THEIR INTENT. IS THEIR INTENT TO BUILD YOU UP BY RECOGNIZING AND VERBALIZING YOUR WEAKNESSES. ARE THEY MOTIVATED BY A DISLIKE OF THEMSELVES, OR OF YOU. ALSO CERTAIN PEOPLE MAKE. YOU MORE RECEPTIVE TO CRITICISIM, AND SOME PEOPLE MAKE YOU MORE DEFENSIVE. BEING ABLE TO DISCERN CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISIM IS SOMETHING YOU LEARN. THE ONES WHO LOVE YOU WILL ALWAYS PULL YOUR CARD, OUT OF CARE AND CONCERN. YOU CAN'T HIDE FROM FAMILY (BIOLOGICAL, OR OPERATIONAL), BECAUSE THEY KNOW YOU.