People who are great with people and relationships tend communicate in a way that is targeted or aimed at the OTHER PERSONS point of view, experience, and level of understanding.

Translation for you = if you want to really connect with a man, then HIS LEVEL of “emotional awareness” becomes YOUR CONTEXT for conversations about love and relationships.

Otherwise, he’s not going to “get” or respond to anything you’re talking about.

And everything you say and do to try and get him to understand you, and make him feel or act differently, will BACKFIRE.

And he’ll become MORE DISTANT and LESS OPEN to communicating and understanding YOU.

And yeah, I get that a man SHOULD get most of this stuff that you probably already do about a love and a relationship if he’s in one with you-

But if he doesn’t… don’t make the FATAL MISTAKE tons of women make here by trying to CONVINCE him of what you know and feel to be what he needs to think and feel too.

Assume a man’s got no idea of where you’re coming from when you talk to him about something you’d like to be different in your relationship.

Let me teach you a trick I learned by watching women who are great at commmunicating with men in relationships…

An easy way to get in touch with his level of awareness and where he’s at is to ask him what he thinks about the relationships of the couples you both know.

You can learn a TON about how a man thinks about dating and relationships this way…

And learn how to approach him and communicate with him as a result.

2. EMOTIONAL “INVESTING” (NOT SPENDING)

A while back in my life, I started looking at relationships more like investments in people, instead of a way to get a pay-off for myself.

Investing usually means that you give up something big to get a little back consistently over time.

In other words, you don’t expect an immediate greater or equal return for what you’re putting in.

It’s become the Golden Rule I’ve learned with people and relationships that helps keep me happy and sane:

“You’ll always give more than you’ll get - but it doesn’t “cost” you anything to give… so keep giving without any immediate expectation.”

So yeah, I’m saying for you to be the person to make things happen.

Take the fate of your love life into your own hands. Be generous, take action, surprise him and be spontaneous instead of waiting for him to do it with you.

I know this can be tough and frustrating.

If you’re like most people, then you want someone to just “get you” and give you the kind of love and attention you crave.

But if you can separate what you want from what it takes to create it, you’ll find that doing these things will get you RESULTS. And you’ll see that doing the things THAT WORK can be like magic with a man…

If you know what they are.

If you learn to trigger the responses and feelings that make a man feel MORE than physical attraction, but a deeper more EMOTIONAL ATTRACTION, men can instantly become more open partners and lovers than they ever were before.

And here’s the best part…

These effects can LAST, if you know how to keep these interactions going.

There’s a way to share with a man that won’t frustrate you, leave you feeling unappreciated and left doing all the work.

It might seem like it sometimes, but you don’t have to “carry all the weight” in a relationship with a man just to be close and loving.

In fact, this is a HUGE MISTAKE tons of women can’t keep themselves from making.

But if you want things to be different and easier in the LONG TERM, then you’re going to have to learn what to do, and when to do it when it comes to men and dating.

The BEST way to figure this out is to start understanding and identifying the signals and behaviors men send out. Reading these signals, and knowing exactly what to expect in each critical situation from first date to a real commitment, can let you grow together from stage to stage smoothly, and without conflict or the insecurity of uncertainty