Sagittarius doesn't try to understand the Virgo's needs
The Rat and the Pig have more than one reason to be happy together. There exists between them more resemblances than differences, and it will not be difficult for them to reach agreement on most issues. The most important factor of their harmony will be their extreme sensuality, a sensuality that ignores taboos and interdicts. Both partners appreciate good food, good drink, good amusement, good sex - in short, every good thing in life. They are also likely to enjoy affluence as he is thrifty and she is most often lucky with money. They will share certain naiveté and a fair degree of childishness, traits that will help them preserve their freshness of soul a very long time. However, there will be the risk of their going too far in this direction and becoming unduly unrealistic and irresponsible.
Although the Rat man is by nature not quite prone to infidelity, he might feel encouraged to go this way as the Pig will tend to show too much confidence in him and refuse to assert her rights as a partner. If ever he does deceive her, she is likely to accept the event with resignation, not realizing that her debonair attitude has been mainly responsible for the Rat's behavior. A little more firmness on her part will spare their relationship some unnecessary complications.
A somewhat shallow, though enviable, union.
You know how excessive criticism from a partner makes you doubt that he loves you? Well, the opposite can run true if you’re with a Virgo. If he stops picking you apart, he doesn’t care enough to make you his improvement project. A Virgo dissects things in a quest to make them function more efficiently, and if he isn’t bothering to make you the best-running model he can … well, prepare for your pink slip.
On the surface, Virgo is the sign of chastity. However, Virgo is no virgin. This sign relates to the archetype of the Sacred Prostitute, as well as the myth of Persephone and Demeter, in which Demeter’s daughter was raped and abducted by Hades, Lord of the Underworld.
Virgo is concerned with integrity, with keeping “clean.” Of course, when literalized this looks like obsessive-compulsive scrubbing and organizing. But in a deeper sense, Virgo wants his or her sexuality to be aligned with the intention to serve and be respectful of the body. This desire can manifest in a “master-slave” relationship, but the true Master is not the Dominatrix, but Goddess.
Virgo realizes that sexuality is a bridge to higher consciousness (Pisces), and that the body is a vessel of Spirit. With this in mind, it is easy to define what turns a Virgo off: any type of sex in which he feels that the bodies involved are not treated with the deepest respect. Being used, abused, shamed … a Virgo may fall into the dark recesses of sex, but it is these wounds that propel him towards a higher expression of his sexuality. Techniques that connect the two worlds are more important than those that impress for ego’s sake.
The Virgo male is orderly and methodical in his thinking, but not always in his dress. Typically a generous and loyal soul, he may not be overly sympathetic in romantic affairs although he constantly harbors a desire to assist those in need. This man usually proves to be a true partner or husband..once he makes up his mind..and will be very affectionate and devoted to his family. At times, Virgo males may be extremely demanding, requiring that any mates prove themselves over and over again. They will also expect sacrifices to be made if necessary. Anyone seeking a "sugar daddy" or a man who will take infinite care of his partner had best seek elsewhere. This individual can be depended upon, but he is nobody's fool. The key word here is integrity and above all else, the Virgo male needs to feel that he is worthy. This is a man with a quick mind and one who is practical and honest. However, he is basically shy in terms of sharing his feelings. Any partner must help the Virgo male to build his confidence and it would be foolish to expect him to be outgoing. This is a far from happy-go-lucky soul. In order to fully understand him, it is necessary to learn how to "read between the lines." Males governed by Virgo need mates who have faith in them and can appreciate depth of feeling. Patience will also be a factor when it comes to achieving goals. To be truly happy with a Virgo man, any prospective partner must appeal to his intellect rather than his emotions. He is inherently critical and discriminating, and does not admire anyone who is weak or whimpering. Males governed by Virgo prefer strong individuals who can hold their own in any given situation. By nature, men of this Zodiac Sign are very practical and will not waste a great deal of time on those who cannot command their respect. If this male ever appears harsh and arbitrary, then it is probably because he expects much more from a partner than that person has been able to provide. In marriage, he will be self-sufficient, dutiful and faithful. Though dependable souls and good providers, Virgo males are not necessarily exciting or adventurous when it comes to romance. Thus, many partners of these men often seek clandestine affairs. It will be important for any mate to realize that no amount of love, attention and/or devotion will ever transform this man into a Don Juan. When it comes to the ability to change, he will inevitably be somewhat stuck in his ways. His staid attitude is frequently well-hidden in the early stages of a love affair. Indeed, he may initially come across as flirtatious, seductive and a veritable tease. This can lead to problems and much confusion further down the road when the true Virgo nature emerges in full force since once a comittment has been made, he will undoubtedly seem to have lost his love for the chase, preferring to "cozy up" with a good book instead of his partner.
Virgo is the only zodiacal sign represented by a female. It is sometimes thought of as a potentially creative girl, delicately lovely; sometimes as a somewhat older woman, intelligent but rather pedantic and spinsterish. The latter impression is sometimes confirmed by the Virgoan preciseness, refinement, fastidious love of cleanliness, hygiene and good order, conventionality and aristocratic attitude of reserve. They are usually observant, shrewd, critically inclined, judicious, patient, practical supporters of the status quo, and tend toward conservatism in all departments of life. On the surface they are emotionally cold, and sometimes this goes deeper, for their habit of suppressing their natural kindness may in the end cause it to atrophy, with the result that they shrink from committing themselves to friendship, make few relationships, and those they do make they are careful to keep superficial. But the outward lack of feeling may, in some individuals born under this sign, conceal too much emotion, to which they are afraid of giving way because they do not trust others, nor do they have confidence in themselves and their judgments. This is because they are conscious of certain shortcomings in themselves of worldliness, of practicality, of sophistication and of outgoingness. So they bring the art of self concealment to a high pitch, hiding their apprehensiveness about themselves and their often considerable sympathy with other people under a mantle of matter-of-factness and undemonstrative, quiet reserve. They are still waters that run deep. Yet in their unassuming, outwardly cheerful and agreeable fashion, they can be sensible, discreet, well spoken, wise and witty, with a good understanding of other people's problems which they can tackle with a practicality not always evident in their own personal relationships. Both sexes have considerable charm and dignity, which make some male Virgoans appear effeminate when they are not. In marriage they can be genuinely affectionate, making good spouses and parents, but their love making is a perfection of technique rather than the expression of desire, and they must be careful not to mate with a partner whose sex drive requires a passion they cannot match. They are intellectually enquiring, methodical and logical, studious and teachable. They combine mental ingenuity with the ability to produce a clear analysis of the most complicated problems. They have an excellent eye for detail but they may be so meticulous that they neglect larger issues. Also, although they are realists, they may slow down projects by being too exact. They are practical with their hands, good technicians and have genuine inventive talents, Thoroughness, hard work and conscientiousness are their hallmarks, and they are such perfectionists that, if things go wrong, they are easily discouraged. Because of their ability to see every angle of a many-sided question, they are unhappy with abstract theorizing. Appreciating the many different points of view as they do, they find philosophical concepts difficult, and they vacillate and have no confidence in any conclusions at which they arrive.
With these qualities, they are better as subordinates than leaders. Responsibility irks them and they often lack the breadth of strategic vision that a leader needs Virgoans are essentially tacticians, admirable in the attainment of limited objectives. Their self distrust is something they project on to other people and tends to make them exacting employers, though in the demands they make on those under them they temper this attitude with justice. They have potential abilities in the arts, sciences and languages. Language especially they use correctly, clearly, consciously and formally, as grammarians and etymologists rather than for literary interests, yet they are likely to have a good memory for apt quotations. Although they are well suited for careers in machine drawing, surveying and similar occupations, they are better fitted for a job in a library or office than a workshop.
Their minds are such that they need the stimulus of practical problems to be solved rather than the mere routine or working to set specifications that need no thought. They are careful with money and their interest in statistics makes them excellent bookkeepers and accountants. They also make good editors, physicists and analytical chemists. They may also find success as welfare workers, ministering to those less fortunate than themselves. They can be doctors, nurses, psychologists, teachers, confidential secretaries, technologists, inspectors, musicians, critics, public speakers and writers especially of reference works such as dictionaries and encyclopedias. Both sexes have a deep interest in history, a feature recognized by astrological authorities for at least two hundred years. If they go in for a business career their shrewdness and analytical ingenuity could tempt them into dishonesty, though they usually have enough moral sense to resist temptation. Female Virgoans may find a career in fashion, for they have a flair for dress, in which they can be trend setters. In any profession they choose the natives of this sign readily assimilate new ideas, but always with caution, conserving what they consider worth keeping from the past. They love country life but are unlikely to make good farmers, unless they can contrive to carry out their work without outraging their sense of hygiene and cleanliness.
Their faults, as is usual with all zodiacal types, are the extremes of their virtues. Fastidious reticence and modesty become old-maidishness and persnicketiness; balanced criticism becomes carping and nagging; and concern for detail becomes overspecialization. Virgoans are liable to indecision in wider issues and this can become chronic, turning molehills of minor difficulties into Himalayas of crisis. Their prudence can become guile and their carefulness, turned in on themselves, can produce worriers and hypochondriacs.
Virgo's are fond of Sagittarians because they widen their horizons with new experiences and travels. Sagittarians are attracted to Virgo's because of their warm and loving nature. Additionally, Sagittarians feel the need to protect their Virgo partner and Virgo's appreciate the Sagittarian's optimism. Problems arise though when Sagittarians tire of the Virgo's need for perfection. Though the two are attracted to one another, this relationship can be a difficult one. If it's going to work, these two signs need to keep the lines of communication open at all times.
A typical Virgo male has a high forehead, with a receding hairline and a straight nose. You are very tall and look taller because of your excellent posture. You are practical and quite unsentimental and refuse to budge even an inch when it comes to your personal beliefs whether logical or illogical.
You expect enhancement and support in your career from your mate and also that she makes your home a clean place for comfort. You, in turn, offer security, reliability and faithfulness.
Virgo men are very discriminating. Many even choose celibacy. As lovers, they are fastidious and efficient, being sure to touch all the bases. Read this next sentence really carefully. They are very concerned about personal hygiene and contagious diseases of all kinds. You must share this concern if you want to get to first base. Floss, floss, floss. Clean under your fingernails. Detail the car. God forbid you should run out of toilet paper when he’s over to visit. You get the idea. A male Virgo lover can be sensitive, tender, and accommodating. When you soothe his nerves with attention to detail, he can reward you with an exquisite sensual experience.
You will communicate well and understand one another. Sagittarius will adore Virgo’s mind and Virgo will want to immediately seduce Sagittarius. Attraction heats up quickly and a romantic relationship could follow. Virgo will support Sagittarius through good times and bad. Virgo is a keeper for sexy Sagittarius. Sexual and romantic compatibility will be intense and passionate. This is especially good combination for sex and love. Friendship and compatibility will keep these two together. Sagittarius must not play any head games with Virgo or there will be a serious price to pay. Virgo needs to keep Sagittarius grounded and both will be happy. The attraction between them will be strong enough to survive any emotional storms. Sagittarius could make the final decision.
This combination is one of the more difficult ones. There can be considerable attraction at the beginning, but some major disconnects in terms of values and relationship styles are likely over time—nothing insurmountable, of course! The common ground you share is a desire to learn through your relationship and a willingness to talk things over. Your partner values your keen insight and you can have some wonderful conversations. Your Venus in Sagittarius lover, especially, gets off on the sharing of ideas, and enjoys philosophizing. You are certainly the more practical partner in this pairing, and your partner may find you a bit of a stick in the mud at times. You may complain of his/her blind faith in the relationship, preferring that your partner live in the here and now. You value effort put into the relationship, and you can't help but see all of the "little things" that make up its whole. Your partner, on the other hand, prefers to think of your partnership in grander, larger terms. This can be very annoying for you! You will likely disagree on how to spend money as well. Your partner is not a save-for-a-rainy-day type of person by any stretch of the imagination (unless Saturn is aspecting his/her Venus)! Your lover needs space and at least the illusion of freedom. He/she is very threatened by any attempts to confine him/her. Needless to say, your partner will be much happier if there is a strong feeling of growth in your relationship. Making plans and defining goals may help, but attempting to control or cage your partner in will have unfavorable results.
With Sagittarius, there is pressure and added responsibility. But there could also be greater rewards. Sagittarius makes you aware of what must be done and gives you a degree of self-discipline. Rather, Sagittarius causes self-restriction. There is a dependency on Sagittarius - and likely to remain unanswered. Sagittarius affects that part of your chart connected with time, home, security, and long-range projects. One of your parents could oppose this relationship. It is not without obstacles. For you, Sagittarius could be the voice of authority. The Jupiter of Sagittarius, combined with your Mercury Solar signification, can be exciting. But the plans are grand and the extravagance causes a drain, which cannot to plugged.
Listen: you could learn to adore Sagittarius. But the opposition of someone who is important in your life could be like throwing water on a roaring fire. It fizzles. There is emotional pressure for you where this relationship is concerned. It is anything but problem-free; you tend to attract a Sagittarian who is considerably older than you are. And you learn from Sagittarius especially about the open road and the open mind. Some of your new concepts conflict with family, duty, and tradition. The relationship brings many benefits, but you don't always enjoy them. You tend to feel closed in, restricted - you could feel you are being trapped because, most certainly, the freewheeling habits of Sagittarius conflict with your own neatness, preciseness, your pattern is a place for everything, while Sagittarius merely lets things fall into place. If you desire a greater awareness of responsibility and if you really desire a certain niche, a place in which to build a nest and to settle, Sagittarius is for you. Otherwise, the relationship takes twists and turns which could make you less than happy.
Love and Chemistry
After studying both Western Astrology and Chinese Astrology, I have come to the conclusion that to a considerable extend, whether love between two people grows or erodes over time depends on how good a match they are in Chinese Astrology. An explanation for this, simply put, is that people of different Chinese Zodiac Signs have different purposes and goals in life. After a long period of time together, a couple get to know each other better and their love for each other will grow or erode, depending on whether their goals are matching or not.
As to chemistry between two people, it is my conclusion that the better a match in Western Astrology, the stronger the chemistry is. An explanation for this, simply put, is that people of different Western Zodiac Signs have different approach to many things in life, including showing and perceiving love. However, chemistry also depends on physical condition. When a couple are young, the chemistry between them is always strong no matter whether they are a match in Western Astrology or not. But when a couple get older, the chemistry between them becomes weaker. Then is when being a good match in Western Astrology will help.
When both Western Astrology and Chinese Astrology are put in perspective, here is how relationships evolve under their influences. Chemistry is strong between any two people when they are young. So as long as they fall in love with each other, relationship can happen between any two young people and it can last for quite some time. But after some time, a couple are more likely to part if they are not a match in Chinese Astrology. For a couple who are a match in Chinese Astrology but not a match in Western Astrology, it is more likely for them to stay in their marriage. However, one of them (the one who is physically stronger) or both of them will have the tendency to have extra marital affairs. This is because the chemistry between them is no longer as strong as before or is weaker than the chemistry between them and their lovers outside of their marriage.
Here is one important point that I should clarify concerning the relationship between love and Chinese horoscope compatibility. Whether two people fall in love with each other or not does not have anything to do with whether they are a match in Chinese Astrology or not. Chinese horoscope compatibility only affects long term prospect of a relationship. Western Astrology, on the other hand, does decide how quickly or easily two people become intimate. The older they are, the more it becomes true to them.
Sun Sign Start Date
Aries the Ram March 21
Taurus the Bull April 20
Gemini the Twins May 21
Cancer the Crab June 22
Leo the Lion July 23
Virgo the Virgin August 23
Libra the Balance September 23
Scorpio the Scorpion October 23
Sagittarius the Archer November 22
Capricorn the Goat December 22
Aquarius the Water Bearer January 20
Pisces the Fish February 19
The Virgo Rat loves detail. They love to look, analyze and analyze again! Their career will most definitely flourish if it requires this diligent examination into areas others may find mundane. They sometimes give off an aura of naivete, and this will undoubtedly attract some lame companions
Decent Shot - Small bumps in the road will be just that. Everyone will have to let off the gas every now and then. But you and your man will get over the bumps and step on it again.
The male Rat enjoys in the female Pig a depth of unequivocal support and admiration that he won't find in a mate of any other Sign in the Chinese Zodiac. The female Pig, in turn, will have found herself a shrewd and highly motivated self-starter who is just the sort of entrepreneur she can rely upon to satisfy her basic material needs in this life.
The two will enjoy the luxuries that their hard work allows them to afford. The cheery Pig will be able to help the Rat laugh all of his troubles away into the gray limbo of a healthy perspective. As long as the make Rat doesn't become too annoyed by his partner's perpetually trusting innocence, this relationship will be as long-lasting as the very stars themselves.
They don't need words, they ACT their love,
people are friends for life. Their relationships are very deep, devoted, and rich beyond measure. The Pig people are noble and give and receive lots of hugs. They are gallant and extend old-fashioned chivalries towards people they meet. Pig People are quiet, studious, and thorough. On the other hand, they have a quick temper and sometimes have to pay for their rash impulsiveness. However, no one can overcome their inner strength; they have such tremendous fortitude and jump the goal post very time. The Pig will have an abundance of good fortune and an abundance of years. The Pig will know a life filled with serenity and riches.
Soup, Oolong Tea, and Candied Ginger are among keys to good health!!
The Metal Pig enjoys great abundance, in health, career, friendship, love, and finance. This kind and warmhearted Pig is a true altruist, always wanting to help people. Because of an open minded laissez-faire attitude towards others, the Metal Pig lends an open hand to those who are not quite as fortunate and stays clear of intolerant narrow-minded individuals. These Pigs are often organizers of great heroic causes. Anyone who has the Metal Pig for a friend is truly lucky because this is a loyal, honest and trustworthy friend for life. Metal Pig Friends are always put on diamond-based pedestals. Career-wise, the ambitious Pig has inexhaustible energy and always strives to improve their performance by studying and working hard to get ahead. Good fortune is their reward. They approach their love relationships with sizzling passion mixed with the tenderness of gentility and kindness. They seem to have their own secret weapon for attracting the opposite sex.
On the Positive side Pigs can be caring, tolerant, sensitive, optimistic, obliging, honest, altruistic and hospitable.
On the Negative side Pigs can be materialistic, vulnerable, gullible, spendthrift, indulgent, hesitant and naive.
Metal cuts and destroys wood, while wood dulls the metal blade that is cutting it.
The Rat loves to be the center of a large group of loyal friends and knows how to treat its loved ones with a special, warm generosity. The Pig puts friends and family first and makes a great, loyal member of the Rat's social group.
Hours ruled by the Pig : 9 p.m. to 11 p.m.
Direction of its sign : North - Northwest
Season and principle month : Fall - November
Corresponds to the Western sign : Scorpio
Fixed element : Water
Stem : Negative
February 2, 1984 February 19, 1985 Wood
January 27, 1971 February 14, 1972 Metal
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